I can relate to this and Moxie’s reply, as well. Dating after divorce has been very difficult for me because I have this natural tendency to keep my guard up and assume any nice guy is secretly not so nice and it’s just a matter of time before he really hurts me. I’m trying to live day by day and smile and say thanks when the compliments come.
People, hives must of come out on my skin I was so scared. Not so much by the thought of going home with them, as that so wasn’t going to happen for many reasons, including the fact that neither of them were my type – at all.
So there I was just shooting the shit, when her man joined our discussion. He was cool, so all was good and I kept talking. As he was the more experienced half of the couple (20 years of getting his kink on and couting) I started asking him questions about any and everything related to backpages